Well, the Miley Madness at the VMA’s opens the doors for so much discussion with our tweens and teens. This is a perfect time to ask your kids questions like “did you see Miley’s performance?” “What did you think? “How did you feel when you saw it?” In my own house, both of my sons saw the full performance online a day later with friends. Staying in tune with what’s “happening” online can create conversations and connections with our kiddos. If you’re seeing it online or hearing about it, so are they. It is so important that parents help kids process and understand the variety of messages they are exposed to.