One day when Lily was two weeks old, I went to meet some friends for a play date. I was trying to act like have 4 children under 6 was EASY and FUN! As we gathered in the backyard my “big” kids climbed a very high TREE HOUSE! Ella was only 18 months old & I was very nervous she would fall. But Lily was screaming to nurse and I was really bad at asking for help. So I climbed the tree house with tiny Lily in my arms and fed her while I watched Ella play. I was perched high above the play date, sweating & not breathing, like a crazy person.